In this video Dr. Stanley, without using the word "codependence," describes the Christian perspective and approach for healing one of the core issues of codependence, which is the difficulty we have with experiencing appropriate levels of self-esteem. Fluctuating between being Less Than and Better Than interferes with your ability to be truly intimate. Do you have trouble accepting God's love due to feelings of inferiority? If you know the Lord, He loves you and views you as His workmanship, a precious work of art. Don't let your feelings block the beauty of that truth. Remind yourself of God's great love.
Do not marvel that I said to you, 'You must be born again.' (John 3:7)